Did some quiz

WHAT IS YOUR INNER ANIMAL?

DOG You are very loyal, you have many friends and are constantly surrounded bt loved ones, but you may have and enemy?

WHAT LIES BEHIND YOUR EYES?

LOVE You care about your friends, and you love them very much. You have gone through some rough relationship problems, but you'll never truly give up on love. It's who you are.

WHAT GREEK GOD/GODDESS ARE YOU?

ARTEMIS You are a maiden that has realized how fickle and ridiculous relationships are and you have taken a solomn oath to never fall in love and to stay a maiden forever. You will make your own life and will not tolarate any man's interference. You are a strong and confident individual and you will not let that change. You are the sacred huntress of the forest, the goddess Artemis.

WHICH OF THE 7 ELEMENTS ARE YOU?

WATER You are easy going. yet can be fierce. You are a very caring soul and feel the need to take care of everyone around you. You have a maternal nature about you. People love to be around you and. They trust you greatly and you give them no reason not to. You may have a tendancy to be clingy which you should be carful of. but over all you are a great person. Your eyes are very deep, and people tent to get lost in them

WHAT COLOR IS YOUR SOUL?

BLUE- THE CARING SOUL You'll go out of your way to help a stranger, and to do almost anything for a friend despite the personal cost. You need to be loved, appreciated, and accepted by others. You'll reveal your faults so others understand you more. You are easily heartbroken, but not the type to be betrayed. You always get revenge. Red souls either find you annoying, or befriend you. White souls open up to you easily. Yellow souls may disappoint you, valuing fun more than friendship. Other blue souls will care for you.

WHO AM I REALLY?

UNIQUE You are special in every way. You are one of everything. You can be mean and bitchy but be a kind person at the same time. You can be sad and crying, but push it aside for a friend. You are creative whether its artisticly, or mentally. You have a temper, but you only use it when neccesary. You are curios, and talented. You have many friends, know lots of people, but inside, you wonder about everything. You have been hurt in the past, but you saty calm and focused enough not to show your hurting inside.

WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE YOU REALLY?

COUNSELOR you are a counselor. you are the one who want to help everyone. you can see and fel the pain that others are going through. you strive to remove that pain but there never seems to be anyone to be there for you when you are in pain.

WHICH LITTLE MISS CHARACTER ARE YOU?

LITTLE MISS SUNSHINE You are bright and wonderful and everyone loves to be around you. you make people smile and are always kind,everyone wishes they were your friend.

WHICH COLOR IS YOUR HEART

RED You have a firey heart. You love to the extreme and love hard also. Everything you do you do including love you do to the best of your abilities and always give it your all. You however always attract the bad boys because of the thrill of having them around. You love the fact its never dull or boring but in the end Red Heart you always get hurt. Although its hard to hurt someone with such a stong soul and so hard headed when someone does there is no turning back.

^Pretty true for this (to me)

WHAT CAREER IS RIGHT FOR YOU?

PSYCHOLOGIST You love to figure out why people do what they do. If someone needs help, you like to get to the root of the problem and help them discover a way to fix it. You see things in a different way than most people. The brain interests you and you like learning new things on a daily basis. You like things to be in a certain order and you're very organized. You're good with people and love meeting new ones

Did some quiz due to boredom...

They smile in your face but spit at your name

I've been thinking, are backstabbers referring to those who just speak ill of their friends behind their backs because they are tired of their shits or are back stabbers people who do it on purpose, not to complain but to create a conflict in the clique, to get everyone to side them and get their friend(s) into deep shit.

Because there's a huge difference between both and I think it's ridiculous to have people calling one a backstabber just because one spoke ill of he/she, just to complain.

And it's stupid to call people back stabbers if the definition of back stabbers also includes the people who complain behind their friends' back. 

I mean, don't we all complain? So if that's the case, if that's the definition of backstabber, then I shall confess, I am one of them too. AND I BELIEVE ALL OF YOU ARE.

So let's first get it's definition right.

1.	Backstabber
	People who you think are friends but then they attempt in causing your downfall

Gotten from Urban Dictionary

Here you go! Back stabbers are people who intentionally cause your downfall. NOT THOSE WHO MAKE MINOR COMPLAIN ABOUT YOU JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE SICK OF YOUR SHITS.

But of course, they hurt you with their actions and might cause your friends to dislike you as well. You can tell if it's intentional if your friends decides to fall out with you. If they don't, don't worry about it and ask they if there's anyway you can change. OR AT LEAST, TRY.

And here's another way you can be cautious of people who will be more likely to back stab you. Because it's hard to tell if you can trust certain people.

They might say they're your 'best friends' , but the moment your back is turned, they lie about you to others.
So I've come up with a few "signs" which (I think) you should look out for.

First thing for sure, Be Aware Of Your Surroundings.


If he/she is mean to you one minute and nice to you the next, something is seriously wrong. Take note of the people they're around with when the sudden change of behavior as well. Most probably because they wanna take your place. (EWWW , low class cheaters)

Take notice of how they treat the things you care about as well. For instance if you really care about your room's cleanliness and you've explained this to them but they still come over and mess it all up, it really speaks a lot about how much they care about you. 
SAME GOES FOR friends you're really close with, or people whom you like. If they try to embarrass you in front of them, IT SURE SPEAKS A LOTTTTTTTT ABOUT THEM AS WELL.


Don't you just dislike it when people try to make you a laughing stock or purposely embarrass you when you're with people whom you really care about/ want to make a good impression of? Like your crush, boyf, boyf's friends and all. Bitch.


And there's only a few way out if you don't wanna get your back stabbed.
But how?


Many times, we think that the best solution is to get away from them and convince others not to associate with them. 
Even if we try to do it in a nicer way like just saying that 'they aren't the best person to hang out with", You'll already be back stabbing them first before you're being back stabbed. 
So I say, take care when you do that. And best of luck you fuckin' back stabber as well!




UNLESSSSSSSS....................... (there's always time when we really need to do back stuffs and take desperate measures when we can't find any other solutions :P) THEY'RE BEING A MEAN BITCH ALREADY! This means that they're already trying to sabotage your friendships/relationships with people. (BE SUREEE!)




Don't hesitate to ask questions. If somebody seems shady in any perspective, ask them about it but pay close attention to their answers. More often than not, they will try to pull one over you. 
But there's really nothing you can do if they don't wanna tell the truth. Guess they're really a bitch and just don't wanna salvage the "friendship" you're trying to salvage. 
Actually, this method is kinda useless. Tried it not just once but more than 10 times and out of 10 times, most probably, this will work once. OR MAYBE, NEVER.


BUT FRET NOT! THIS DEFINITELY WORK, if you can.

EVERY BETRAYAL, STARTS WITH TRUST.

Don't rely on those whom you suspect for anything; even the tiniest of things. In this way, you will avoid situations where you owe him/her a favor Or get them screw you over. (TRUST ME!! NOT EVEN THE TINIEST BECAUSE I HAD IT HAPPEN TO ME TWICE. JKFHDKFHKDH!) 


So, if you can't tell them the tiniest thing, don't even tell them any hidden secret. Who knows, they might trade it with some other people to gain something. This method takes patience, practice, it's hard not to trust your "best friends" y'know?


HAH. Looks like there's actually no good way of getting them out of your life or preventing them from back stabbing.


Total avoidance is impractical, and just because you're not where they can see you doesn't  mean you won't end up with one of their blades behind your back or even a cut. Its the nature of backstabbers, after all, to act when you're not around to defend yourself. 

So, all the best, may you meet good people in your life. And if not, too bad, you gotta just be more careful most of the time.


P/s. Please don't take this seriously if you don't agree and take this as a chance to get me on my formspring or anywhere.


P/s/s. I guess this is just a cycle in life we all have to go through eh. So, ignorance is bliss. MAY WE ALL HAVE PEACE. (IN OUR HEARTS AND MINDS) Let us all not be greedy.

Amen?


I don't even know if I'm making sense. LOL

I can't forget, but I can pretend

Off to study @ Yewtee mac. Made plans to go tong seng tomorrow, can't wait!!!! Usual ktv on Saturday and
then... SUNDAY!!!! HAHAH!