All that glitters is not gold.

And if you choose not to love her now, you can't choose to love her later.

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"She is fire. You are ice, and you are afraid that her slow burn will smolder your cool, hard demeanor. That’s what has driven your decisions, your actions all along: fear. You are a coward. You are a hypocrite. You are terrified to let her go, but you are afraid she is too good for you, that she could drive you wild, that you would choke on her flames. That she is too much for you to handle right now."

I've been a safety net and a comfort for you while you go out trying to grab whatever/whoever that you can get ahold. But this time, to be fair, I think you need to let me go.