THE SIZE OF MY ASSETS, DO NOT NEED THE CONCERN OF YOURS

I've been thinking of an appropriate way to start this post without making myself sound insecure about the size of my bust (I am not but it's kinda impossible because the moment I mention about this topic people would already think I'm insecure. lol ok?) so heck...

IT ANNOYS THE HELL OUTTA ME WHEN PEOPLE MAKE STUPID COMMENTS/JOKES ABOUT THE SIZE OF MY BUST.

Example:
"You got anything to molest meh?", "You got nothing to see what!"... and stuffs like that. I can't recall the jokes/comments made by people/friends because honestly, it doesn't affect me -in the sense  whereby I become insecure about myself. BUT it does annoy me. Because I don't see a need why people have to bring up the size of my bust in a conversation that is totally unrelated to boobs.

A conversation about dim sum can go like "I'm not really a fan of dim sum" and then the next moment, the size of my boobs can be brought up and the reply which is given to me would be "cause they are the size of your boobs? HAHAHAH" Like hah? Okay........ that was soooo related to dim sum.

LIKE SERIOUSLY HOW DOES THE SIZE OF MY BUST AFFECT YOU!?!?!

lol. Like as if the size of my bust would cause you to fail your studies.

Or lose money..

Or cause your relationship to fail...

Or maybe cause you to be insecure about yourself.

WHICH FOR ALL THAT I HAVE MENTIONED ABOVE, IT DOES NOT.

In any way, I think it helps girls with bigger boobs  feel better about themselves?? So why the need to try and "bring me down"? Idk, though it doesn't really bring me down but ya, why the need to bring up the issue with my boobs like it affects you in one way or another. 

And it is OKAY for people to have small boobs. Stop making it sound like it's something terrible like they've murdered someone because of their small assets. How many times I've overheard conversations /come across situations whereby girls are being condemned for the size of their busts. As if they've sinned or failed in life. 

Seriously, it's not nice.

Girls with big busts, yeah, fortunately/unfortunately for you. I don't see girls with small busts going around trying to make a joke about how you can feed 20 piglets with the size of your boobs. Well, maybe they don't because they are insecure with their own. So you don't have to make people with smaller boobs feel worse. You care about your own assets while I care for mine. lol. What's up with making girls with smaller busts feel bad about themselves. Is your baby gonna drink milk from someone's else's breast milk with a bust size smaller than yours in future?

No one asked you to make the size of someone else's bust your problem. 

Shut up and get on with life.

I don't think guys would like it if girls always bring up the topic about the size of their dicks as well. How would boys like it if girls are always staring at your crotch, comparing the size of your crotch with other guys and always making comments/jokes about the size of your penis. Girls don't make nasty comments and joke about the size of your dicks so try not to be such a dick. 

If you don't have anything nice to say, then you don't have to say anything at all.

And girls should stop feeling so insecure about the size of your boobs. Your job is NOT to breastfeed 5000 babies from other mothers, piglets or to make milkshake from it.

Sure, to some people, a bigger bust might help make them look more seductive/alluring(?!!?) but why would you need to look seductive. You're not a prostitute nor auditioning to be a porn star. You do not need two extra big lumps of fats to be good looking.

Because,

***FLASH NEWS***

Even my favorite models like Behati Prinsloo from Victoria Secret only has a cup size of 32B.

And another successful model, Coco Rocha is like..........

Well, you can judge from this photo...

 VS model Lindsay Ellingson is an A cup.

Miranda Kerr and Candice Swanepoel are both Bs.

And the list goes on...

These models mentioned are only a few of the all the other models in the world with small busts and YET, are still successful. 

Being small does not make one, lesser a woman.
And surely I bet girls with small boobs do not know some of the benefits of it.

Did you know,
Having a smaller set does your body good. Like in self-exams, it's easier to detect a lump in the back of smaller breasts, since there are lesser layers so it's easier to feel. Also, larger boobs are heavier, and that puts pressure on the body and strains your body. 

Larger breasts also sags over time because of gravity. Which means, perennially perky girls who are less affected by gravity, will have their breast stay perky for a longer period of time!

So, how do you like me with gigantic boobs? 

BAWHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH.

My curves don't define me. And neither should yours define you, your intellect, personality and all the other things you can offer. 

At the end of the day,

it is not the size of your assets that determines whether you're pretty.

And it surely does not determine your gender.

Updates: September so far

Hello People.

I finally got my lazy ass up to update my blog a lil' on my hols so far.

A day of my life at work whereby I'm being forced by my boss, Joanne to put on girly floral dresses.

So yeap, this is one of the very first floral dress whereby she got me to put on. I know "sweet" was never in my blood. lol.

And then, on a random Monday night (16th Sept), Minjiang, John Lim, Fiona and I decided to go for supper together at WCP's mac. lol. I was at JEM earlier on with Joanne to have tea together, went home had dinner and then an hour later, Minjiang came to pick me up together with John Lim and drove back to Jurong to fetch Fiona from her korean class.

Anyways, it was really a night well spent. It's been long since we hung out together as a clique. Last time was like my birthday?!?!? Which was like 2 months back! Wtf?!?! So I'm glad that we could at least spend some time together even if it's just a few of us.




And on Friday, after meeting for lunch at Shakery with Shushia, Fiona, Minjiang and Eugene, we went over to westmall for Sogurt while accompanying Shushia to wait for her boyf to meet her.

(lol. We weren't advertising for sogurt. The photo above was taken in attempt to make Fiona jealous after she left us for work because we knew that she has been craving for sogurt the past few weeks)

And then, just on Monday, my conversation with John Lim using Eugene's phone. lol. I met Eugene after my driving lesson and we had no where to go, no one to meet up with so I was feeling really upset and whiny. Was whining to John Lim and told him I was bored and he did this to entertain/cheer me up. lol. Well, he succeeded. Btw, voice note from me after the photo was "WHY U HURT YOURSELF" and I totally LOL-ed at his reply. HAHAHAHA

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Carrying on,  I know that I've been neglecting this blog for a really really long time. Was looking at my posts and I realized I only have like a pathetic average number of 1 post per month. And there were even months when I didn't post anything at all.

Which is sad to me I guess? Because there were like NO "memories" made this year. All I've been doing this year really has been school, work, staying at home sleeping and shit like that. I guess my blog/life has mostly been about my secondary school years and now that I've graduated, I basically have no life at all and nothing to blog about.

My friends stopped making time to spend time and have fun, priorities for them changed, people stopped making an effort and really, the times when we used to have fun together are just gone.

It upsets me honestly to see these changes and yet, I can do nothing about it. I mean for the first and only time I'm gonna use this word but #yolo.
If we don't spend time now and have fun, then when are we gonna do it? We won't be able to have fun when everyone is already married with kids?

Meh.
I shall stopped my ranting here.

But yes, I think it's time I revive this blog again. I shall not be lazy anymore and do something to change. There's so many drafts stashed aside in my blog and my computer of things I wanted to blog about but because of procrastination and things I have going on in my life, I didn't manage to finish writing to put them out.

So in the meantime, keep a look out on this space.
I will update. X

I'm at this stage whereby even if I'm drowning, I wouldn't bother struggling just to stay afloat.

Snoozed the alarm so many times today and woke up later than expected. Thank God I wasn't late to take my test. I've been at work the past 4 days and was so busy the whole of this semester, I hadn't had time to catch up with my feelings... till 2 nights ago, and thought of losing certain people especially a big brother of mine struck me. I cried so hard to sleep. I feel so drained. I don't want to do anything, I don't want to sit for my tests, I need good food, I need a getaway.

Today, once again, I witnessed the ugliest side of humanity. -Worst of all, it was done unto me.


If my heart has grown cold, there Your love will unfold