Finish the race

For the past few days of my life, I've been thinking real hard.
What should I do for a change? (Mainly about my results)

Alright. So now, I shall try- again, to "inspire" you people.

WHY IS CHANGE NEEDED IN ORDER TO BE BETTER?????
(I asked many people but no one can give me an accurate answer. So they just ask people to change because people just need to change. hah)

That's what I dislike. When people ask you to change, they are suppose to really tell you how and why.
Because, if you don't feel that you need to change, and they think you do, then they should at least enlighten you and give you an explaination.

It's like you asking for guests to help themselves with the food when there is no food infront of them (as in it's kept somewhere else in your house and not visible to them)/ you are not offering them any. So you mean you expect your guest to go to your kitchen and find the food themselves?!?!?!?!?!!?

NO!

You offer them the food and they choose if they want to have it or not!

Similarly, You ask people to change, suggest to them how and tell them the reason! And they choose if they want to or not.

Ok, I'll get back to that later because that's not what I'm gripping about.

So, I'm going to tell you (generally) why you need change in your life!

Firstly, change is needed for growth! (yayyyyyyyyyy!)

You grow taller, mouth gets bigger, you become skinner like a bamboo etcetc.

That's change! (Even when you become a hideous creature.)

You become mature, (yay! change!) more hot tempered, more easily jealous etc.

CHANGE = LEARN!

*claps*

(I'm learning!)

It takes courage to hear the truth and faith, discipline to change.

So in short, you change because you've learnt your lessons!

And please, that doesn't mean if you don't change ASAP *sarcastics* means you WILL NEVER LEARN!

People need time what!

They need time to reflect, take action, fail to change, try again and again and again and again (as many times as long as they change in the end)

Ahem, "In the end" is not when you give up on them but when they die. Hello! It's their life. Their world DO NOT revloves only around you!

So even when you give up on them, but they change before they die, means they've learnt!

YOU!, by not giving up on them plays an important part as their support, strength, courage, motivation (YES! this one is damn important i tell you k!) and whatever they can think of.

SO IF YOU GIVE UP ON THEM, and because of that, they stop trying to change for the better it is also YOUR FAULT!

BECAUSE, YOU WERE THE ONE WHO ASKED THEM TO CHANGE! SO YOU GIVE UP EQUALS TO THEY GG, DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO AND ALSO GIVE UP!

yeayeah, you are responsible too.

And if they don't give up when you have given up, it means that you mean alot to them, they don't just change for you but everyone and for themselves!

Ohya, If both ain't the reason, then maybe you should consider th fact that they change not because of you but because they want to, not because of your words but other's and that you are just a nothing in their life! You don't deserve the change in them!

*winkwink!*

And for some other cases like people scold you crazy, ccb (yay!), knn, abc, lp, etc. When you ask them to change for the better, equals you GG liao.

Hey, I don't mans that you should give up on them k!

Anyway, the difference between these two is that one is willing to change but needs more time while the other is that they think they are damn effing good that they don't need to change at all!

They are different k! Don't mix them up!

5 reason why they won't change!

1) they think you suck, 2) you've got mental problems, 3) 4) and 5) are the same reason as one.

hahah!

hah!
hahahahahahahhahahahaah!

ok, serious please.

1. 
   
   Pride
   
   
   
2. 
   
   fear
   
   
   
3. 
   
   rebellion
   
   
   
4. 
   
   laziness
   
   
   
5. 
   
   ignorance
   
   
    So don't give up and instead, HELP THEM! :D
   

Because only two kinds of people won't change!

they are ..... FOOLS AND DEAD MAN!

Cause fools won't change and dead man can't change!

This post go inspire you not?!

hahaha!

NO? D:

really meh? If so, please dig out your eyes or get a specs because it's either you can't see what I've posted or Your brain is not working! oh, I think that's the case! :p

YES! Of course! ^^

cheeeeeeeeeeeeee!

hahah! yes right!?

Ok, good. so now, tell me!

What should I do for a change??? RAWR! ):

And how to!

I need you guiding...

Sian. I'm changing out of my clothes and going out.
I'm sick! OMG!